My grandparents emigrated from Greece back in at the beginning of the 1900's, and of course they lived in New York, and ended up - double of course - in Astoria. For those of you who don't know, Astoria has long been the Greek neighborhood of NYC. To this day, when we go visit some (Italian) friends who live there, they send me out to get the breakfast bagels, because I always come back with freebies, beginning with extra bagels. I guess that the bakery owner assumes that I'm Aunt Eudoxia's niece or something...
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I asked my father, when I got old enough to understand how expensive a brownstone is, how on earth was my grandfather able to afford to buy one back in the 1930s? He said, "Well, he did a favor for someone with money. Got him a nice little truck route, and the brownstone." Who was the someone with money? Someone named Gambino. I asked my father, "What kind of favor did he do?" "No idea. We didn't ask questions."
Second story, not mine, which I mentioned in the comments section on Leigh's column: The Mafia has made some very interesting investments. Developments in Florida and elsewhere. Casinos everywhere. And also utility companies, in parts of the southeast. There was a man from the Midwest who worked for one of the power companies and went down to the southeast in what he thought would be a career move to manage a local utility company. He was back in six months, thankful to be out of there... unharmed.
Third story. There's a town in Kentucky, with a population of not quite 7,000 people, which has one of the best authentic Italian restaurants you can find anywhere. My husband and I took my father there for dinner one time - we were on a road trip, long story - and the food was excellent. Or at least my husband's and mine was. My father occasionally liked to throw his weight around in restaurants and other establishments, and he began to complain, loudly, about his dish. And asked to see the manager.
The manager came over. He was obviously Italian; he was obviously not a cook; he was obviously completely indifferent about what customers - or at least us - thought of him. He listened to my father, looked at his plate, and said, "I don't have time for this shit. Get out of here."
Tone of voice is everything, because my father got up and went.
Out in the car, my father started fretting and fuming about how he was treated. "Why didn't we do something? Why didn't we argue back?"
"Because," I told him, "he was Mafia."
"He was?" my father asked.
I nodded. "Yes, he was."
And he was quiet the whole rest of the trip. At least about that.