08 June 2021

Displays of Love



I know I’m lucky. Temple is supportive of, and often takes an active role in, my writing career. Not all writers can say that about their spouses.

Early indicators of Temple’s support include her having a copy of my first professionally published short story framed to hang over my desk and her having the covers of four magazines with my name on their covers printed on mugs so that when I have my morning pick-me-up, I can pick me up.

The latest example involves redecorating decisions precipitated by family tragedy.

The summer before our November 2015 marriage, Temple’s brother Peter unexpectedly died. The two were quite close, and Temple was devastated by the loss of her younger brother.

Peter was a Pearl Jam fan and, after his passing, all nine of his Pearl Jam concert posters—professionally mounted and framed under glass—passed to Temple. So, to honor Peter, the posters became focal points in four rooms: the living room, the dining room, and both of my offices.

My favorite of Peter Walker’s
nine Pearl Jam posters,
this once hung on the wall behind
me when I sat at my writing desk. 
Hanging the Pearl Jam posters not only honored Peter, but their presence reminded Temple of him every day and, because visitors often asked about the posters, allowed Temple to share her memories of Peter. No matter what we did, one of the living room posters was constantly askew, exactly the kind of thing Peter might have done to annoy his sister.

Earlier this year, Peter’s now-teenaged daughter asked for the posters. Though the decision to relinquish them was heartbreaking, Temple gave the posters to her niece, which left large, empty spaces on the walls of four rooms.

The smaller posters in the dining room were replaced with Temple’s mother’s artwork. (Both her mother and my mother were artists, so we have their paintings, watercolors, and drawings decorating nearly every room in the house—but that’s a post for another time.)

One living room wall, which had contained two of the three largest Pearl Jam posters, remained near-barren, as did the wall directly behind me when I’m sitting at my desk, which contained the third of the three largest posters.

Nothing we already owned—and, trust me, we have a great deal of artwork created by our mothers, as well as miscellaneous artwork and posters created by non-family members—seemed appropriate. Temple nixed everything I suggested.

Then one day, as she looked at the covers of the three anthologies I’ve edited for Down & Out Books, she said, “You know....”

She told me that homes should be decorated to reflect their owners and not to reflect the contents of the sale bin at Hobby Lobby. More importantly, replacing Peter’s Pearl Jam posters with my book covers would do exactly that. She would be exchanging something that reflected the essence of her brother, whom she loved dearly, with something that reflected the essence of her spouse. Besides, she said, “They’re really cool covers.”

And a few weeks later, after having the covers enlarged, printed, and framed by CanvasPop.com, the covers for Jukes & Tonks and Mickey Finn: 21st Century Noir were hanging in our living room, and the cover of The Eyes of Texas: Private Eyes from the Panhandle to the Piney Woods was hanging in my primary office.

Many writers don’t have spouses who take active roles in their writing careers, and fewer still have spouses who decorate the living room with giant reproductions of their book covers.

As I said at the beginning of this, I know I’m lucky.



When the Private Eye Writers of America’s 2021 Shamus Award nominees were announced earlier this month, I was surprised and delighted to see that two short stories from issue 7—the special PI issue—of Black Cat Mystery Magazine were nominated: Gordon Linzner’s “Show and Zeller” and fellow SleuthSayer John M. Floyd’s “Mustang Sally.” As editor of BCMM, I shan’t play favorites, so I’m hoping there’s a tie vote and that both Gordon and John receive a Shamus Award.

8 comments:

  1. Lucky, yeah, but a whole lot of hard work and love.

    When I think of Pearl Jam, I can't help but think of their cover of that J Frank Wilson song. You know the one I mean.

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  2. It must have been hard to let go of those posters, Michael — but, since it was Peter's daughter who wanted them, the decision must have been a no-brainer. Maybe someday she'll reach a point when she's ready to let you have one of them back. (If she sees this SleuthSayers post, that day might even come sooner, rather than later.)

    Meanwhile, props to Temple for coming up with a terrific alternative decorating solution — and I'm looking forward to seeing you both in N'Awlins in a couple of months....

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  3. Thanks for sharing Michael. I'm a Pearl Jam fan myself - some of my favourite all-time concert moments include seeing Pearl Jam play in Auckland about ten years ago (the crowd singing along a capella to the start of Better Man before the band kicked in, McCready's soaring guitar solo on the live version of "Black" etc). Your book covers look brilliant. Lovely artwork indeed, aesthetically and with meaning.

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  4. These are great, Michael. What a telented extended family!

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  5. What a great, supportive thing to do!

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  6. What a lovely action on Temple's part, Michael ... but no surprise, really, as I discovered when I met the two of you at our "Eyes of Texas" panel in Houston.

    I'm sure it was difficult for Temple to give up the Pearl Jam posters, but again, a lovely gesture on Temple's part (I'm detecting pattern here!) for a family member also looking to preserve her memories. I do hope that Temple gets them back at some point.

    And thanks for sharing stories about your very talented extended family!

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  7. Thanks for the kind comments, everyone.

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