29 April 2025

Quotes and other memories from Malice Domestic


I just returned from this year's Malice Domestic convention, where I had a lovely time celebrating my friends Marcia Talley, Donna Andrews,Gigi Pandian, and Les and Leslie Blatt, who were, respectively, the guest of honor, the lifetime achievement honoree, the toastmaster, and the co-fan guests of honor. (There also were two honorees with whom I have no personal connection. Lucy Worsley was honored as the Poirot Award recipient, and Dorothy Gilman was remembered--Malice's term for honoring a deceased mystery community member.)

While at the convention, I saw many friends, made some new ones, sat on one panel, moderated another, hosted a table at the banquet, won the Agatha Award for best short story of 2024 (for my whodunit "The Postman Always Flirts Twice," from Agatha and Derringer Get Cozy), received some other good news (for myself and for a fellow author), saw a character naming I donated to the charity auction go for $500, and listened to authors speak eloquently--and humorously--on panels. It was a great time, even if I did lose my retainer.

Here are some quotes from the panels. My apologies if I didn't get some of the wording exactly right.

"Motivation for a killer is so important. You have to set it up right away." -- Tina Kashian

Marcia Talley during guest
of honor speech
"Cozies are popular because they make people feel comfortable. Sure, people are killing each other, but they're doing it in a nice way." -- Marcia Talley

In response to a question about the best advice you ever received: "Find your community. As much as writing is a solo effort, you can't get through this alone. You need your people to help you when you get a bad review or a plot hole or ..." -- Sarah E. Burr. (Sarah didn't trail off in that last sentence, but I didn't get the end written down, hence the ellipsis.)

"A hate crime, such as a swastika painted on a synagogue, is dark, but when the whole town comes together to paint over the swastika and support the temple, that is the cozy treatment. That is how to use dark social issues in cozies." -- Kathleen Marple Kalb, who also writes as Nikki Knight

During a discussion about enjoying novels set during World War I and World War II, despite how horrific the wars were, Catriona McPherson made the following analogy: "You can be nostalgic for a time--like the lockdown--without being nostalgic about Covid. It's being nostalgic for the time spent with your family."

"Cozies are for optimistic readers. Bad things happen, but everything is right in the end. Noir is for pessimistic readers because the ending gives them what they expect from the world." -- Paula Munier

If you're interested in learning about Malice Domestic, which brings fans and authors together to celebrate the traditional mystery every April in the Maryland suburbs of Washington, DC, click here. The website has not been updated yet for the 2026 convention, but it should be soon. I hope to see you there next year, when the honorees will be:

Guest of Honor Annette Dashofy

Lifetime Achievement Honoree Jacqueline Winspear

Toastmaster Ellen Byron

Poirot Award Honoree Jim Huang

Malice Remembers Margaret Maron

Fan Guest of Honor Billy Aguiar

17 comments:

  1. Sounds like fun, Barb. I love how you casually slip your award in the middle of the list. I would have probably led with it if I received such an honor. Oh, and as a quote collector, I enjoyed Paula's words of wisdom.

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    1. I thought what Paula said was quite interesting too.

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  2. Congrats on yet another Agatha, Barb. Seeing who's being honored—as guests and ghosts—these days makes me feel old! Oh yeah, I am old... I don't attend Malice any more, but I always had a great time when I did.

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    1. Thanks, Elizabeth. I realized this weekend that I have been attending Malice for 25 years. Time does fly.

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  3. Great quotes, and I am fascinated by that one about cozies vs noir. I would take it a little differently re cozies. I think women particularly crave things to be right in the end, to be just, because they so often *aren't* in the real world. And congratulations again, Barb!!

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    1. Thanks, Mel. And yes, as we all know all too well, things often don't turn out right in the end in the real world. But they did for Canada yesterday, and that is great!

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  4. Congratulations on your award. Well-desrved.

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  5. Congratulations on winning another Agatha. Those writing awards keep stacking up.

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    1. Thank you! I certainly am not complaining.

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  6. I love Catriona's line: "You can be nostalgic for a time--like the lockdown--without being nostalgic about Covid. It's being nostalgic for the time spent with your family." My folks (in their 90s) and my husband were all still around during the lockdown and I have a lot of fond memories of that part.

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    1. I know what you mean, Jeff. I have fond memories of spending time with my dog during lockdown. I mean, we always spent a lot of time together, but then we spent A LOT of time together.

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  7. Cynthia Sabelhaus30 April, 2025 22:23

    Loved your article, especially the quotes. Also the nice words about Malice. See you next year!

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    1. Looking forward to seeing you next year too, Cynthia!

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