tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3119105822589181967.post3496792395078289905..comments2024-03-28T15:01:21.285-04:00Comments on SleuthSayers: All I Need To KnowLeigh Lundinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07921276795499571578noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3119105822589181967.post-40782044928329655052015-05-26T02:56:58.526-04:002015-05-26T02:56:58.526-04:00Oh shoot, i wrote some interesting ideas but lost ...Oh shoot, i wrote some interesting ideas but lost as I was trying to post it. In too much pain right now to rewrite. All this rain has made me achy today. jan graoenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3119105822589181967.post-49752087862225546232015-05-25T18:58:30.527-04:002015-05-25T18:58:30.527-04:00Erk, I meant Trayvon Martin above.Erk, I meant Trayvon Martin above.Leigh Lundinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07921276795499571578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3119105822589181967.post-6231000266511299122015-05-25T12:01:28.260-04:002015-05-25T12:01:28.260-04:00Childhood traumas stick with you for years, perhap...Childhood traumas stick with you for years, perhaps always, because (like your husband's and your friend's), they're so deep down, (1) you don't have words to talk about them and (2) 99% of the time, whoever is your caretaker doesn't want you upset, and wants you to pretend you're just fine. And that's in nice families. Eve Fisherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03015761600962360110noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3119105822589181967.post-38553082559450612862015-05-25T05:25:38.898-04:002015-05-25T05:25:38.898-04:00Jan, I hate to be trite, but your piece makes thin...Jan, I hate to be trite, but your piece makes think of the saying "past is prologue." I know that's true for me and many other people I know. We are the sum of our experiences and they lead us to act or react in certain ways. Sometimes not always good ways -- ie the villain in a story.<br />Paul D. Markshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15466234708772287399noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3119105822589181967.post-26178858200571035112015-05-25T05:09:33.573-04:002015-05-25T05:09:33.573-04:00Jan, in the Trayvon Williams murder trial, you may...Jan, in the Trayvon Williams murder trial, you may remember one of the defense lawyers was a guy named Don West, a man I used to know. He mentioned that virtually every one of his clients had brutal, abusive childhoods. I’ve forgotten details, but he mentioned one boy whose parents chained him to a tree for some hours. I sometimes think the best way to fight crime is to see that all children are better taken care of, not merely our own, but everyone’s.Leigh Lundinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07921276795499571578noreply@blogger.com